He says he lacked confidence in his previous relationship and has been rejected many times, but his silence has me worried. How can I make him feel more confident?
I have been with my boyfriend for about 10 months. While I have never been so happy, I do feel slightly uncomfortable in the bedroom with him compared with my past relationship. He has never been vocal during sex. I have tried asking him what he likes and he has always shrugged it off. It is making me feel as if I am not good enough for him and I can’t do anything to please him without knowing what he is truly into.
He has opened up about not being confident with sex in his previous relationship, and he has been rejected many times, so I think this has something to do with it, but is it a thing that men don’t moan or even speak during sex and foreplay? When we have discussions about sex, I always say that I want him to feel more relaxed and confident around me. I know it is easier said than done, but I really want to help him feel as if he can be himself and enjoy sex.
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