I never started a family as I was caring for Mum. How do I move on from her death?

As her main carer, she filled a huge part of my emotional life. But I am acutely aware of not having a partner, and sometimes feel like a failure

I am a middle-aged man and have spent a large amount of time being a carer for my mum. My dad died when I was young and a few years later my brother passed away. Afterwards, my mum became quite reclusive. She always did her best for me, but from an early age I tried to give her as much emotional support as possible.

I have always had this role fill a large space in my emotional life. I never really felt the need for deep connection with girlfriends and this is why I haven’t settled down.

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