The No 1 tip from sex therapists and educators for couples who want to have more sex is to consciously make time for it – don’t leave it to chance. You wouldn’t leave going to the cinema with a friend to chance, says the psychosexual counsellor Nicola Buchanan. “You would plan and find what works for both of you. We need to put some time aside to reconnect and create the opportunity for sex.” Murray Blacket, another psychosexual therapist registered with the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT), suggests that couples with flexible working patterns could both choose the same day to work from home. “Cheeky, yes, but couples who work from home together by all accounts get up to no good together, too.”
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