My husband is too serious and I can’t discuss my emotions with him

I know he loves and respects me, but I hate his cold, logical nature

My husband loves me and takes care of me, but he is a very cold and serious person, whereas I am fun-loving. I don’t like his nature, and hate it when he scolds me for silly mistakes. My emotions have no value for him, and I cannot discuss my mental health with him. When we married 18 months ago, I worried I would be unhappy, but he said he would change, so I took a chance because he is a good person, respects me and my family and had no dowry demands. We have no children. Should I stay with him, and suppress my wishes and expectations?

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