It’s very much all about you and what you’re not getting, says Annalisa Barbieri. But she seems to have the power and it might be that when you’re about to leave that she listens
My wife and I are both in our early 50s. I love her, find her attractive and like her as a person, but we have a fundamental difficulty: we can’t talk about any kind of problem or anything personal. Or, rather, she can’t. If things are going well, we get on OK, but if there is a problem we just argue. There is no meeting of minds, no talking through something. So either nothing gets said or we have big, horrible arguments.
The hardest part for me is regarding sex. We can’t talk about this at all. I feel that we don’t have a sexual relationship. Every three weeks or so we might have sex, but I am always frustrated by it. This started 12 years ago. When we do have sex, it is always the same and she always initiates it because if I do she just won’t respond. When I started to become tempted to look elsewhere I resolved to do all I could to try to improve things.
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